Have you ever noticed that some mean people have nasty cats who scratch guests and growl when strangers come within a few feet of them? What about laid back people who usually have cats that are just like them lazy and carefree?
Well that’s no coincidence. It is my opinion, as a cat owner who has been around many different cats over the past 10 years, that cats adapt to their owners’ mood and personalities
A good friend of mine is very talkative and loud. She sometimes lashes out at people and goes off on a tirade over nothing in particular. (Why friends? That’s an entirely different story.) It’s no surprise that she has a husky male cat named Dee who talks all day long Meow, meow, meow, all the time. You come into the room where he’s relaxing and he starts yapping. Dee will follow you around, on your heels crying out for you to listen to him. It’s almost as if he is saying “Do you hear me? What is your problem?” He is also pretty aggressive when he wants to be, so you don’t always want to mess with him. Sound familiar?
A little about me. I am usually very calm and loving I treat people with respect, and am always there to help. But I do have a temper, and have been known to have my fits. If I don’t like a situation, I’m out of there, and sometimes will avoid conflict altogether. My two cats are extremely laid back. The first, Yoshi, is so laid back. He loves people, and even if he doesn’t really like you, he’ll give you a chance and sit nearby. When he loves you, he’ll really love you. He’ll come find you at night and curl as close to you as possible. He also will flip out and get an attitude if he can’t go outside and escape though he loves being outdoors. My other cat, Jetta, is skittish. As soon as he hears your footsteps coming he is gone before you know it. But he is-very loving and kind. He’ll come up to you (when you are sitting of course) and rub his little head up against your thigh until you pet him. But as soon as you get up, or he perceives clanger coming, he is out of there!